Once in a while some abuser husband writes me. I’ve had a few of those recently. In spite of the litany of “treatment” protocols in which they have participated, they don’t seem to have developed much self-awareness about their patterns and tools of abuse. They are still using those things to establish their “victimhood”, their “self-sacrifice”, their “recovery” in the story they tell and the plans they are making.
Read MoreMany women go from bigger and sometimes more impressive houses to smaller less impressive houses without feeling cramped or short-changed. So, it makes me wonder what was taking up all the room in larger marital homes?
Read MoreProfessional Invalidation. There’s no excuse for it—just a bunch of bad reasons.
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