A few readers have brought it my attention that they don’t know how to avoid treatment practitioners who may not be safe for them.
Even though I’m writing about that regularly, it is still a learning curve.
Read MoreShe’s exactly who he needs to help make him socially palatable—a loving, supportive and good person with long friendships and family connections. He will have neither. She will not be wealthy because that would mean too many people keeping an eye out for her. He needs to work under the radar. If it’s later in life she will be skilled and genuinely talented at certain things that are worthwhile, but not highly educated. He doesn’t want a critical thinker who is mature enough to trust her trained mind. She will be a hard worker and add value immediately. He’s getting tired. She will probably have a hard story of loss and grief in her life that leaves her alone. He needs someone vulnerable to hopium. She will be warm and accepting and generous with affection and encouragement. He is starving for narcissistic supply. And something about her body will match his porn template. For example, his mommy.
WHAT DO YOU DO?
Read MoreI pulled the plastic bag out of the bottom of the box. It was so heavy. What was in it? A treasure of coins? Jewellery? Gold ingots? Was the plastic going to to break from the weight of what it held?
Read MoreAs a community and workplace traumatologist I have been hard at creating resources and doing workshops since mid-March, when news of the coronavirus pandemic settled into our lives. As our neighbours to the south hit the storm full sail with over 155,000 deaths, I talked with one of my US colleagues about the sex addiction treatment industry’s silence during the pandemic. It appears they’ve made a strategic choice to be dumb.
Read MoreIt’s yours to choose.
Not mine. Not his. Not any treatment practitioner’s. Not your religion’s. Not your family’s. It’s your path to choose.
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