Blog Archive
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January 2024
- Jan 11, 2024 What Do I Remember? (From the Resting Archives January 15, 2018--In Loving Memory of J.--We keep going) Jan 11, 2024
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December 2023
- Dec 17, 2023 The New Year Ahead: From the Resting Archives Dec 17, 2023
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November 2023
- Nov 5, 2023 Invalidation: The Professional Edition Nov 5, 2023
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October 2023
- Oct 12, 2023 Invalidation: It’s NOT a neutral position Oct 12, 2023
- Oct 3, 2023 I'm a guest on Chump Lady's Podcast! Oct 3, 2023
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August 2023
- Aug 22, 2023 Anger and Women Aug 22, 2023
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June 2023
- Jun 8, 2023 This Is the Blog Post that People Read Most Jun 8, 2023
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May 2023
- May 1, 2023 Feedback & Follow-up to "Mommy's Boy" May 1, 2023
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February 2023
- Feb 22, 2023 Five “IMO’s” That Might Be Important To You Feb 22, 2023
- Feb 8, 2023 Mommy's Boy Feb 8, 2023
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December 2022
- Dec 12, 2022 Lurching Into the Festive Season Dec 12, 2022
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September 2022
- Sep 11, 2022 Vow Power Sep 11, 2022
- Sep 3, 2022 Standing Up For Yourself Sep 3, 2022
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August 2022
- Aug 6, 2022 Victim: Running from that label instead of running from the abuser Aug 6, 2022
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July 2022
- Jul 15, 2022 The Pain Is Real Jul 15, 2022
- April 2022
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December 2021
- Dec 21, 2021 Today It Went In Another Direction Entirely Dec 21, 2021
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October 2021
- Oct 23, 2021 When You Know You Don’t Know Him At All Oct 23, 2021
- Oct 8, 2021 Humiliation Is Part of the Experience Oct 8, 2021
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August 2021
- Aug 31, 2021 Who “Can’t Handle the Truth?” Aug 31, 2021
- Aug 14, 2021 Stop Calling It "Cheating" Aug 14, 2021
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July 2021
- Jul 28, 2021 A Saving Grace Jul 28, 2021
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June 2021
- Jun 26, 2021 Active Voice to Passive Voice: An Industry Special Jun 26, 2021
- Jun 3, 2021 The Pandemic Has Not Been A Sabbatical, But Valuable Time To Reflect Jun 3, 2021
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December 2020
- Dec 13, 2020 What's Love Got To Do With It? Dec 13, 2020
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November 2020
- Nov 21, 2020 When Our Marriage and Family Dreams Die Nov 21, 2020
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September 2020
- Sep 25, 2020 Living With A Man You Don't Trust Sep 25, 2020
- Sep 19, 2020 Temporary Email & Sad News Sep 19, 2020
- Sep 14, 2020 The Learning Curve Sep 14, 2020
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August 2020
- Aug 24, 2020 The Next Victim Aug 24, 2020
- Aug 14, 2020 The Keys to My Success Aug 14, 2020
- Aug 8, 2020 The “Pop-Up Store” Treatment Industry "Pops-Down" in a Pandemic? Aug 8, 2020
- Aug 2, 2020 Choose Your Path Carefully, But Choose Aug 2, 2020
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July 2020
- Jul 22, 2020 Dyed-In-The-Wool Jul 22, 2020
- Jul 12, 2020 When Time Pulls You Back Jul 12, 2020
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June 2020
- Jun 26, 2020 What Happened to You? Jun 26, 2020
- Jun 6, 2020 There Is A Way To Get Better Jun 6, 2020
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May 2020
- May 26, 2020 The Industry's New Ancillary Product Line May 26, 2020
- May 10, 2020 Shift Happens May 10, 2020
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April 2020
- Apr 27, 2020 When Nothing Is Normal Apr 27, 2020
- Apr 19, 2020 Don't Think. Breathe. Apr 19, 2020
- Apr 11, 2020 Something So Wonderful Apr 11, 2020
- Apr 5, 2020 How Does Hope Say Hello? Apr 5, 2020
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March 2020
- Mar 28, 2020 When You Don’t Know What Other People Think They Know About You Mar 28, 2020
- Mar 25, 2020 Two New Free Videos Offering Support As We Navigate This Pandemic Mar 25, 2020
- Mar 20, 2020 Sheltering-in-place.....When That Includes Him. Mar 20, 2020
- Mar 14, 2020 Yes. You Are Still In There. Mar 14, 2020
- Mar 12, 2020 Midweek Gotta Share--a Great Vlog from PoSARC Mar 12, 2020
- Mar 7, 2020 They Used To Call Me Hysterical, But Now They Can Just Call Me "Right" Mar 7, 2020
- Mar 4, 2020 Well, That's Not The (insert name here) That I Knew Mar 4, 2020
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February 2020
- Feb 29, 2020 We CAN Heal. Here's One Way to Start. Feb 29, 2020
- Feb 25, 2020 Ways to Begin Working Hard for Yourself Feb 25, 2020
- Feb 22, 2020 You Think “Recovery” is Hard Work? Try Surviving Covert Abuse When Your Abuser and His Treatment Group Deny He’s Doing It! Feb 22, 2020
- Feb 19, 2020 When Your Brain Is Requesting Some Down Time Feb 19, 2020
- Feb 17, 2020 A Short Note From Me, With A Bonus Round of Tania Feb 17, 2020
- Feb 8, 2020 Five Questions Worth Asking Yourself Feb 8, 2020
- Feb 1, 2020 The Couple Counselling Treatment Travesty Feb 1, 2020
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January 2020
- Jan 30, 2020 Midweek Gotta Share! Jan 30, 2020
- Jan 22, 2020 Midweek Gotta Share -- A must-read Blog! Jan 22, 2020
- Jan 18, 2020 Who Are We? Jan 18, 2020
- Jan 13, 2020 Don't Help (The most read blog of 2018, from August 5) Jan 13, 2020
- Jan 4, 2020 The Blogs That Mattered Most to You in 2019 Jan 4, 2020
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December 2019
- Dec 30, 2019 The Real Work That Is Yours To Do Dec 30, 2019
- Dec 23, 2019 We Can Be More than a "Class 5 Full Roaming Vapor" Dec 23, 2019
- Dec 16, 2019 Sexual "Strugglers", A New Low In Treatment Nomenclature Dec 16, 2019
- Dec 13, 2019 A Must Read Post Dec 13, 2019
- Dec 2, 2019 Shaken AND Stirred Dec 2, 2019
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November 2019
- Nov 23, 2019 Problems Wives and Partners Experience with Treatment Industry Practitioners Nov 23, 2019
- Nov 16, 2019 The Trapdoor Nov 16, 2019
- Nov 9, 2019 Is A Focus On "Betrayal Trauma" Betraying Us? Nov 9, 2019
- Nov 2, 2019 Becoming More, Part 5, The Spirit Nov 2, 2019
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October 2019
- Oct 26, 2019 Becoming More, Part 4, YOUR BODY Oct 26, 2019
- Oct 20, 2019 Becoming More, Part 3, Your Head Oct 20, 2019
- Oct 14, 2019 Becoming More, Part 2, YOUR HEART Oct 14, 2019
- Oct 6, 2019 Becoming More, Part 1 Oct 6, 2019
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September 2019
- Sep 28, 2019 The Gift of Loving Sep 28, 2019
- Sep 21, 2019 The Gift of Leaving Sep 21, 2019
- Sep 18, 2019 Mid-week Gotta Share--Florida Retreat for Partners! Isn't It Your Turn, By Now? Sep 18, 2019
- Sep 15, 2019 In The Season of Letting Go, These Are Reasons We Don't Sep 15, 2019
- Sep 8, 2019 The Results Are In. Narcissists Aren't That Bright. Sep 8, 2019
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August 2019
- Aug 17, 2019 Wondering what on earth I discuss with clients? Aug 17, 2019
- Aug 10, 2019 First Things and Second Things Aug 10, 2019
- Aug 4, 2019 Everybody Breathe Aug 4, 2019
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July 2019
- Jul 28, 2019 In My Opinion, Where Do We Go From Here? Jul 28, 2019
- Jul 21, 2019 Living Differently into These Hard Truths Jul 21, 2019
- Jul 14, 2019 What’s With Adult Children Turning Against Their Mothers? Jul 14, 2019
- Jul 7, 2019 Lessons Children Learn from Fathers Called Sex Addicts Jul 7, 2019
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June 2019
- Jun 30, 2019 My Family, Eight Years Later Jun 30, 2019
- Jun 23, 2019 The Whole Family. His “Addiction.” We're Soaking In It. Jun 23, 2019
- Jun 17, 2019 Notice of New Blog Post Jun 17, 2019
- Jun 2, 2019 Standing up for yourself: When practitioners say your symptoms are "trauma like", is that the cue for "treatment-like" care? Jun 2, 2019
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May 2019
- May 26, 2019 Hang On To Yourself May 26, 2019
- May 19, 2019 PART TWO: In My Opinion May 19, 2019
- May 14, 2019 Mid-week Gotta Share~Scholarships Available for "Retreats Just For YOU!" May 14, 2019
- May 11, 2019 TAKE TWO....Part One: In My Opinion May 11, 2019
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April 2019
- Apr 28, 2019 Start Where You Are. Use What You Have. Do What You Can Apr 28, 2019
- Apr 20, 2019 Healing Continues: Spirituality Apr 20, 2019
- Apr 13, 2019 Healing Continues: Sexuality Apr 13, 2019
- Apr 6, 2019 Healing Begins Apr 6, 2019
- Apr 2, 2019 Mid-week Gotta Share~Encouragement Apr 2, 2019
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March 2019
- Mar 30, 2019 Intimate Partner Abuse: How Does It Impact You? Mar 30, 2019
- Mar 23, 2019 How Men Called Sex Addicts Abuse Their Wives and Partners Mar 23, 2019
- Mar 16, 2019 Searching for Your Life and What It Means Mar 16, 2019
- Mar 9, 2019 What Kind of Primary Relationship Does the Treatment Industry Have in Mind for You? Mar 9, 2019
- Mar 6, 2019 Mid-week Gotta Share~Retreats Just For YOU! Mar 6, 2019
- Mar 2, 2019 Where Does Hope Fit? And What Is It? Mar 2, 2019
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February 2019
- Feb 23, 2019 You asked for more: Boundaries and Consequences Feb 23, 2019
- Feb 16, 2019 Suddenly Alone Feb 16, 2019
- Feb 13, 2019 Mid-week Gotta Share from PoSARC Feb 13, 2019
- Feb 9, 2019 The Big Boundary Bluff Feb 9, 2019
- Feb 2, 2019 Magic Words Feb 2, 2019
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January 2019
- Jan 27, 2019 When Practitioners Can't Bear "Bearing Witness" Jan 27, 2019
- Jan 20, 2019 Recovery Down So Low You Can't Get Under It Jan 20, 2019
- Jan 13, 2019 "I Can't Do This Without You" Jan 13, 2019
- Jan 6, 2019 Trying To Do The Right Thing Jan 6, 2019
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October 2018
- Oct 7, 2018 To Have and To Hold, How the Sex Addiction Treatment Industry Uses Wives and Partners Oct 7, 2018
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August 2018
- Aug 26, 2018 Mantras, Manifestos, and Music Aug 26, 2018
- Aug 19, 2018 Starting Over, Guest Blogger Tania Rochelle (more on Tania below) Aug 19, 2018
- Aug 12, 2018 Therapists and Tone Policing Aug 12, 2018
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February 2018
- Feb 18, 2018 The Victim Problem Feb 18, 2018
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January 2018
- Jan 15, 2018 What Do I Remember? (Reposted from the Resting Archives) Jan 15, 2018
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December 2017
- Dec 28, 2017 The New Year Question (revised from original post on December 28, 2017) Dec 28, 2017